Preorgasmia

Preorgasmia, or anorgasmia, refers to a woman's inability to have an orgasm during sex. (Men can also suffer from this condition, though this article is written from a woman's point of view) When a woman suffers from preorgasmia she cannot reach orgasm even with direct clitoral or vaginal stimulation. Preorgasmia is a sexual dysfunction. If a woman cannot reach orgasm by herself with direct stimulation, then the world's greatest lover will not be able to make her reach climax.

Causes Of Preorgasmia

90% of all preorgasmia cases involve psychological problems. In cases where women can bring themselves to orgasm through masturbation but not during intercourse, this certainly points to a relationship issue and not a biological problem. What are some contributing factors? Stress, whether in life or in the relationship, is a sex killer and can prevent a woman from enjoying sex to its fullest. Performance anxiety can cause preorgasmia as can sexual boredom. In cases like this, where preorgasmia is a recent development, then strengthening the relationship and the line of communication can work wonders in restoring a woman's sexual confidence.

However, some preorgasmia sufferers require more concentrated attention. Women who have endured traumatic experiences, whether in adulthood or childhood, tend to develop negative or even defensive attitudes toward sex. Rape and child abuse cases are the most difficult to treat, and require intensive sexual therapy. A strict religious upbringing in which children were taught that sex is wrong can also be a problem, as the adult still carries an instilled fear of intimacy.

Even the abuse of alcohol and illegal drugs can diminish orgasmic response, as can some prescription medications. Chronic sickness and pain can hinder sexual response, and so can other physical traumas and conditions such as hormonal problems and diabetes.

Treatment For Preorgasmia

Treatment for preorgasmia usually dosen't involve heavy medicine or surgery. If a woman's health is cause for concern then a physical examination may be requested so that a physical problem can be ruled out. For the most part however, preorgasmia is best treated by sex therapy. Because this condition is a sexual problem and not a medical condition, a sex therapist is the most qualified and experienced professional to handle the case. A sex therapist works with a patient to provide education and treatment so that the sexual aversion or fear can be overcome.

You don't have to live without great sex or without an orgasm. If you are experiencing symptoms of preorgasmia then consider sex therapy as a longterm solution. Sex is a natural and enjoyable part of life and something that you do not have to live without. Sex therapy may be just what you need to enjoy that part of your life again.

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