OK, so you’ve been going out for a while now and tonight look’s to be that special night when you finally get to do your sexual dance between the bed sheets. You want to make it really special, and you want her to feel the ultimate boost in satisfaction.
Suddenly, all these things start coming to mind. What if she thinks I’m small? What if I don’t last long enough to please her? What if she doesn’t orgasm at all? Then before you know it, things go completely off the intended track.
It’s the first time you’re going to be with her and yet your soldier down below, who so eagerly participates fully when you’re alone and your hand comes to visit, simply refuses to participate when the little Misses is present. You can’t believe this is happening… You feel flustered, confused and inadequate…
…Thus beginning the vicious cycle, (a self-fulfilling prophecy if you will), because this one time leads to other discouraging thoughts… Oh my God, what’s wrong with me? Is this going to keep happening? Am I really a terrible lover? Seriously…
|
